Excitment and Sex
To sex itself happen,
people got to have some arousing aide. Nobody just
make it always work the same way needing visual/corporal
responses to feel “in the mood for sex”. There are
many ways people can have to feel attracted by sex.
One of them is, surely, the so-called visual calling:
one person feels in the mood for having sex with
one another. This stands for the number one step.
If the correct approaching is made and both parts
agree on the idea of having sex, the most likely
is that to happen. The following is what people
call “foreplay”. It can be labeled as the way people
have to say to their bodies: hello, I am going to
have some sexual pleasure. It’s what people used
to call as “heavy petting”. It is when kissing goes
deeper and our hands start to have “longer walks
trough the other’s body”. When we try to arouse
the other’s sexual desire, we are making our own
way trough this exciting road of sex.
The most common, when two people are engaged in
the mission of arousing someone else, it is very
normal mutual masturbation taking over. That can
be the main issue on sex for it to happening. Actually,
would be correct to say that nobody can say when
sex is going to happen. Only bodies can. When our
bodies are talking the sex language, we can be lost
for words: Only our needs need to chat with the
other’s needs.
People, in general,
say that sex itself is only sexual intercourse –
the penetration act. That is only a myth, if we
think that an intimate relation with someone can
happen by many, many ways. By classifying sex as
a natural activity people can have many times they
want to. And that involves masturbation, oral, anal,
vaginal sex, watching, sucking, and inserting a
huge quantity of objects.
Normally, sex ends
when men ejaculate, and that must change, because
women have different ways to reach pleasure and
that, most of time, means that they have more difficulties
to cum than men do – and this idea should be sufficient
to men become more engaged in being more focused
on their needs.
