By sexual orientation is understood by whose genre someone
would feel attracted whether physical or emotionally. Formerly called sexual
tendency or preference, now being perceived as orientation, it’s established
that everyone’s sexual genre isn’t a matter of choice making. Nobody gets to
choose to become target of blackmail despite what gays and lesbians have to
go up against, besides all the grief from being unable to wear their own sexiness
in whichever way pleased them most.
Sexual orientation has got anything to do with biological sex
(male - female). Perceived chiefly as – heterosexual (someone who feels attracted
by the opposite sex), homosexual (attracted by same sex individuals) and bisexual
(whoever tends to be attracted by both sexes), it’s a matter of taste, which
remains effectively unexplained by science itself.
From childhood, ilk start gearing up into a sex-orientated
process of self-acknowledgement headed either way. Through the male-female framework
passed onto them, enabled them to mingle with one another, accordingly with
psychology wise explanations, yet, in accordance to medicine itself. It too
is believed that sexual orientation might be hormonal-related. Elsewhere trends
try to address sexual orientation through all sorts of approaches, so far none
seemed capable of proving their point.
Nonetheless, only few people get to unveil their sexual orientation
straight from childhood. Some people spend a great deal of time playing the
biological role designed upon their biological sex patterns, playing along with
the opposite sex up until caught up with their real genre identity. It brings
home why we hear accounts on men and women who, past ages of marriage, realized
that they’d bear no sexual desire whatsoever towards individuals from the opposite
sex or anything, yet could feel attracted by either sexes. Some others, however,
who played their sexual role all along, derived no pleasure, still lagged the
courage to change their course. Stand a great chance to get bashed by, since
society have yet to come to terms with what lies enshrouded within the homosexual
and bisexual cloak, being both kept off the charts of what, despite evolution
by humankind, would be considered “normal”.
The acronyms normality and pathology both lost even more room
as far as sexuality goes. Both homosexuality and bisexuality have long stopped
being considered shortcomings, in favor to being viewed as a school of thought
within sexuality itself, just like heterosexuality. That’s the way it is, at
least, in the scientific world.
Offhandedly -, sexual leniency isn’t a choice deliberately
made. It’s the way as to how someone comes to perceive own sexiness, urges,
sexual tendencies and arousal threshold. If someone regards oneself as female,
would feel sexually inclined towards males, if self-acknowledged as male, would
go for females or even, could feel attracted by both genders, feeling much at
ease with either the male or female counterpart.
Science perhaps some day would be entitled to explain how sexual
orientation springs out, disregarding of whether hetero, homo or bisexual. Nevertheless,
by now, seems needed that society accepts that not everyone is the same, in
that there’d be those who couldn’t fit within normality and in turn wished to
be happy their way. Bit by bit it headed that way and who is to say that in
no time discrimination any longer is a rule.